Certified Sexuality Educator
AASECT Certified | BA² | ANTE UP! Certified
2026 AASECT Sexuality Educator of the Year
Professional Sexuality Educator since 2003
Media & Speaking Appearances
I am available for Panel discussions, Podcasts, Guest Speaker opportunities, and for consulting for media. If I don't feel I would be a good fit I will happily offer referral suggestions.
In addition to the media sampled below, I've participated in panels with OutCare Health, TriCities Pride Festival,
Wisconsin University LGBTQ Health Summit, Antioch University,
and Washington University in St Louis.
I'd love to learn more about your event!
Podcasts
Sex Therapy 101
with Dr. Cami Hurst
July 30th, 2025: Introducing Asexuality into the Conversation
With Guest: Aubri Lancaster
In this episode we break down how some in the Asexual community approach the topic of "Consenting to Unwanted Sex."
From the Heartside Out Podcast
with Cee The Sex Lady
Feb 26th, 2025: The Many Faces of Love
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Something Positive for Positive People Podcast
with Courtney Brame
Oct 17th, 2024 Episode 357: Asexual Insights De-centering Sex with Pleasure
with Aubri Lancaster
Owning Your Sexual Self
with Rachel Maine
Sept 16th, 2024 Episode 205: Exploring Asexuality and Aromanticism with Aubri Lancaster
What Excites Us
with Gwyn Isaacs
Sept 13th, 2024 Episode 59:
Asexuality and Aromanticism with Aubri Lancaster
Modern Queer Relationships:
Breaking Stigmas and Embracing Diversity
Panel discussion through OutCare Health - Aug 15th 2024
Speaking of Inclusion...
with Katie Allen
June 4th, 2024:
Pleasure & Asexuality with Aubri Lancaster
Making Polyamory Work with
Libby Sinback
April 23rd, 2024:
Navigating Asexuality with Aubri Lancaster
What is Sex? with
Isy Abraham-Raveson and
Rebecca Klein
April 7th, 2024 S6 E7:
What is Asexuality?
Rock the Bedroom with
Lee Jagger
April 5th, 2024 Episode 5:
Talking Asexuality
The Intimacy Lab with
Michelle Renee
Dec 15 2023 Episode 7:
Asexuality
Reframing Our Stories with Kara Haug
June 14 2023 Episode 58: A Comprehensive Look at Orientation: Aubri Lancaster
Vaginas, Vulvas, & Vibrators with Jordan D'Nelle
Jan 19 2023 Episode 162: Asexuality and Aromanticism with Aubri Lancaster
Our Better Half Podcast with
Dr Jane Fleishman &
Dr Rosara Torrisi
Episode 151: Asexuality an Identity not a Diagnosis
Aubri Lancaster as Guest
The Bonding Hour with
Dr Eli Sheff
Aug 30 2022
Aubri Lancaster as Guest
Kitchen Table Podcast with Brittany Policastro & Nick Antony
July 6 2022 Episode: Asexuality and Nonsexual Intimacy with Aubri Lancaster
Giving Consent Podcast with Jamie Cawelti
July 6 2022 Episode: Is Asexuality Sex Positive? Gain Clarity from the Expert!
Aubri Lancaster as Guest
Modern Anarchy Podcast with Nicole Thompson
Episode 54: Understanding Romantic and Sexual Attraction: Asexuality, Libido, and Abundant Love
Aubri Lancaster as Guest
Books Aubri is Cited or Quoted In
Subjectified by Suzannah Weiss (2024)
Quoted on pg 73
Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections
by Emily Nagoski (2024)
Chapter 1, Citation 4 - see Notes pg 315
Ace and Aro Journeys: A Guide to Embracing Your Asexual or Aromantic Identity
by The Ace and Aro Advocacy Project (2023)
Appendix pg 256
I Am Ace: Advice on Living your Best Asexual Life
by Cody Daigle-Orians (2023)
Additional Resources pg 186
Articles with Aubri Lancaster as Consult
Kinkly
Asexuality: Just how Queer Is it?
by Remi Newman
Aubri Lancaster as Consult
Giddy
A 'Yes/No/Maybe' List May be Your Cure to Boredom in the Bedroom
by Ella Dorval Hall
Aubri Lancaster as Consult
Zumio
Painful Penetration: Why it Happens and What to Do
by Ella Dorval-Hall
Aubri Lancaster as Consult
Psychology Today
Can Someone Be Both Asexual and Polyamorous?
By Elisabeth A. Sheff Ph.D., CSE
Aubri Lancaster as Consult
Glam
What to Know about Cupiosexuality
by Josee Ng
Aubri Lancaster as Consult
Elite Daily
Experts Explain Whether Lack of Sex is Ever a Reason to Break Up by Emma Glassman-Hughes
Aubri Lancaster as Consult
Cosmopolitan
Here’s What You Need to Know About Fraysexuality
by Emma Glassman-Hughes
Aubri Lancaster as Consult
SGN
Love in all dimensions: A look at Asexuality and the struggle for validity
by Lindsey Anderson
Aubri Lancaster as Consult
Confidence & Joy Newsletter by Emily Nagoski
Ace Awareness Week
Aubri Lancaster as consult