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Certified Sexuality Educator
AASECT Certified | BA² | ANTE UP! Certified
Professional Sexuality Educator since 2003
One-on-One Consultations
55 min | Pay What You Can
Suggested $35-$150
I offer customized education and insight to help you better understand Asexuality, Aromanticism, and related topics—whether for personal exploration or professional development. My role as an educator is to provide frameworks, language, history, and possibilities of pleasure and intimacy (sexual or not), not to offer therapy or counseling. After our session you'll receive a recap email with relevant resources and slides we discussed.
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What We Can Cover:
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Understanding Asexual & Aromantic Experiences – Identity, community language, compulsory sexuality, desexualization, and more.
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Desire, Attraction & Relationships – Low desire/libido, desire discrepancy, limerence, dating, relationship models (monogamy, non-monogamy, QPRs, relationship anarchy, solo poly, etc.).
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The Mechanics of Arousal & Pleasure – Physiology, responsive vs. spontaneous desire, kink/BDSM, choosing and incorporating sex toys or adult products.
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Disability & Neurodiversity – How these intersect with sexuality, relationships, and access to pleasure.
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LGBTQIA2+ & Gender – Navigating identity, labels, and inclusion.
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Professional Support – Case consultation, resource recommendations, and guidance for integrating accurate Asexual/Aromantic perspectives into your work (e.g., therapy, writing, research, training).
If you're unsure whether a session is right for you, feel free to reach out with questions to aubrilancaster@gmail.com
Venmo: @Aubri-Lancaster
Paypal: aubrilancaster@gmail.com
Zelle: phone number can be sent upon request